What We Wish We Wrote on Our Wedding Invitation...
Reflecting on my wedding day, if there’s one thing I’d change about the invitations, it would be this: I’d ask everyone to share a positive word they believe is the key to a happy and long-lasting marriage. And I mean everyone—whether they’re married, divorced, separated, or happily single. Why? Because no matter the relationship status, we all have some wisdom to share about what makes relationships work.
The Power of Validation
A Word That Makes a Difference
There are probably countless words that could be offered, each holding its own truth and value. But if I had to choose just one word to highlight, it would be "validation." It’s not just about acknowledging your partner’s feelings and thoughts; it’s about doing so with an open mind and a non-judgmental heart. Before diving into a conversation, truly listen to your partner—understand where they’re coming from. Validation sets the stage for understanding and empathy, and it’s a powerful tool that can transform your relationship.
Why Validation Matters
Imagine reading through a collection of words from people sharing their thoughts on what makes a relationship successful. It would be fascinating to see the variety of perspectives! But if there's one consistent message, it might just be the importance of feeling heard and understood. That’s what validation offers—a chance to connect on a deeper level, beyond the surface disagreements or misunderstandings.
Embracing Validation in Our Relationships
Ah, if only we could go back and sprinkle that word "validation" across our wedding invitations! But even if we missed that chance, it's never too late to embrace this powerful practice in our relationships. It’s more than just wearing a ring—it's about making our love journey even more meaningful and resilient.
Check out this great little clip we love about validation.
It’s a perfect reminder of how a simple, yet profound, act can make a big difference in our relationships. Let's keep the conversation going and make validation a cornerstone of our love stories!
